I created an 8MB file to send to an AOL address, it did not go, everytime I open windows live mail, not the essintials version, it tries to send but will not go. Everytime I shut down WLM, I get a message do you want to send the message, I say yes, same thing it wont go. There is nothing in the draft message sections in any of my four email addresses. I try to delete it in the message listing the file, nothing. How can I delete what I cannot find that is there.

Sounds like you need to go to the Windows Live Solution Center @ http://windowslivehelp.com/ since you seem to be having a problem with Windows Live Mail.Please remember to click Mark as Answer on the post that helps you, and to click Unmark as Answer if a marked post does not actually answer your question. This can be beneficial to other community members reading the thread.